Signs You are an Empath

An empath can be defined as a person who is sensitive to energy that surrounds them. Being an empath is a wonderful gift, since it does give one a unique perspective on the life that surrounds them… if of course said empath is empowered. Most people who are empaths either have no idea they are, or simply deny it as a way to avoid doing the necessary work to become empowered. I’ve put together a small checklist that will help figure out if you fall into the “empath” category from having lived through it myself. I’ve also included a few pointers on how to deal with each sign.



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XXXopoly Game Instructions

If you are forgetful like myself, you’ve probably misplaced your instructions for XXXopoly. I still haven’t played the game, but I somehow mistakenly threw away the instructions years ago. I purchased my board game years ago when I was married, but didn’t realize when I got married that the guy I got married to was frigid and wanted nothing to do with it. Believe it or not, there are men who are so vanilla that they can’t picture themselves doing anything but missionary!

Anywho, my game was collecting dust when I decided to open it, only to realize the instructions were gone! I googled the game instructions to no avail and ended up writing to customer service; I decided to write to them before even needing the game rules, so that when I do need them in the future, I will not find myself going crazy when I decide to play the game. That was the best decision ever, because it took them a while to respond, but I didn’t care because I was not waiting!

This is me preventing the ordeal for someone else. Also, in case you were wondering if you should even purchase this game, I’ve attached several pictures of the board itself along with a few of the cards from each category, since someone actually asked from seeing my “list of favorite toys”. I figured if one person asks, many wonder without wishing to actually ask so why not simply post!

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How to give Your man an Orgasm Without Touching him


Time for another taboo topic! Is it possible to give your bae an orgasm without even having to touch him? The answer is a big fat yes, and it is quite easy. I’m a woman who only likes men, though I am certain this would work for all types of couples, gay or straight! Keep in mind, this requires the permission of the person who would be on the “receiving” hand. In addition, these feeling is not related to genitals and have nothing to do with actual sex. It’s more of a braingasm!

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Who is Lucifer?


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In the beginning, God created the world. He created one female and one male which were one, and also made out of HIS image: Adam and Eve. I emphasized the word “His” because mankind was literally made out of God’s image, which means that as arrogant as that sounds, God’s power isn’t considered a power, but our simple innate nature. We are not God, but archangels are said to be considered sons and daughters of God. Adam is Eve’s twin ray; Eve was taken out of Adam’s rib, and made into the female version of him, his other complete half. Adam then left his family to join his wife after she was created for him, and remains with her.  From the Bible (Genesis 2):

19 Now the Lord God had formed out of the ground all the wild animals and all the birds in the sky. He brought them to the man to see what he would name them; and whatever the man called each living creature, that was its name. 20 So the man gave names to all the livestock, the birds in the sky and all the wild animals.

But for Adam[f] no suitable helper was found. 21 So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs[g]and then closed up the place with flesh. 22 Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib[h] he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.

23 The man said,

“This is now bone of my bones
    and flesh of my flesh;
she shall be called ‘woman,’
    for she was taken out of man.”

24 That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.

25 Adam and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.


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Why did I write this first part about Adam and Eve, if this post is about Lucifer the archangel? For one, Lucifer is an archangel, which means he has a twin flame just like Adam and the other seven archangels. Strangely, I could not find much information about his twin ray, which already tells me there is a lot of information missing on him. The other reason why I wrote of Adam is because of the fact that both he and Lucifer were cast out for disobeying God and wishing to know more than was allowed. The general confusion that exists in spirituality is that Lucifer was the serpent who tempted Adam and Eve, and that this was originally the reason why he was “thrown out” of Heaven. But the only way that Adam would have a twin ray would be if he was an archangel himself, and couldn’t have been the serpent. The serpent was said to be a crafty animal, not an archangel.. From the Bible (Genesis 3):

The Fall

Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?”

In this story, Adam and Eve are being natural at first. They are doing both good and evil without awareness, which means without any thought of malice since they have no idea what good or bad are. They are like adult children, completely unaware and you could even have called them insensitive. They were instructed to “multiply”, so were most likely making love in the outdoors in front of everyone, and without a care. And then the serpent came along and told them to eat the fruit. When they did, they realized they were naked. They woke up! They saw themselves: wow, I am dirty, and I’m walking around naked. What did I just say? I sounded like a bitch. I just bumped into Adam without saying sorry, and he might take that personally.  They became self-conscious, insecure, so they tried to cover themselves. They structured themselves, they hid their personality behind a mask. When God saw this, he was angry. He had only wanted them to be themselves.

So who was Lucifer? I instinctively thought of Adam and Eve and the story of the garden of Eden before I asked myself that question. Therefore, trusting my intuition, I’d say the easy answer would be Adam, since Adam is the only archangel that was created along with his twin ray, then cast out of heaven (the garden of Eden) not on a mission, but as punishment. He and his twin ray were pretty much thrown to earth to live life and suffer as humans for all eternity. Reminds me of the movie “Skeleton Key” where those two people just indefinitely incarnate on earth. It also reminds me of the myth of Sisyphus. Who would’ve ever thought that being human could be likened to being in hell? Then again, that is what the bible means by rotting and being amongst the dead and then having your tomb (resting place) reject you. Being incarnated and cast to earth is perhaps the greatest form of punishment for an archangel who has disobeyed. They decided to eat from the fruit of knowledge of good and evil, which was forbidden as God reserved this knowledge for Himself, not his creatures.

See this source for more details on the scripture:

Just as a summary, here is the list of archangels and their twin flames:

Archangel Michael‘s twin flame is Faith
Archangel Chamuel‘s twin flame is Charity
Archangel Gabriel‘s twin flame is Hope
Archangel Jophiel‘s twin flame is Christine
Archangel Raphael‘s twin flame is Mother Mary (this one I am unsure of)
Archangel Uriel‘s twin flame is Aurora
Archangel Zadkiel‘s twin flame is Holy Amethyst

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How to Channel your Twin Flame


I’ve written several posts on here about twin flames: Twin flame Q & A’s (which I will continue with if I do meet him, and I think I’m close to getting to that point and of maybe meeting my twin ray next year), and also a post about preparing yourself on a mental and emotional level to find your twin flame. Writing as you go is also a good tool in recognizing that person. Today, we’ll discuss how to willfully channel your twin flame so that you can get clues as to who he or she is! That’s the fun part, and the part that creates a telepathic communication where before there could have mostly been static. Today we’ll explore the twin flame schedule, which is a wonderful way of using your own mind to create an intimate relationship with your twin flame; no one else can do it for you, not even me, so dig in!

Also, please note that when it comes to channeling your twin flame, you are not getting private information about them unless they send that to you. One thing that is important to remember when it comes to telepathic communication is that there is a sender and a receiver. One advice I’d also have regarding the twin flame schedule (since I have experienced it), would be to keep that schedule to your free time. Meaning time you are not studying or working.

Why? Imagine you are going to school, and the other one is as well. When you schedule time out of your own time to understand them, you are taking away valuable time you could be using to do your work. You’ll feel tired without knowing why, and some things may look familiar… In an exhausting way. It’s like working double. What I do, is keep my whole time to myself when I am either working on my own projects or studying or working if I work. Then when I feel free to learn more about my twin flame, I use my twin flame schedule to open a communication channel. 

That would be important to remember, because during this time, you would not want information from other people included. If you wish for your twin flame to know more about yourself, that time should be sacred and completely dedicated to communicating with him. So what I would do beforehand: Sage your space, complete some energy clearing meditations to completely clear your space, and then contact your twin flame. You would not invite anyone into your marriage bed, and you wouldn’t take your work with you to a date. That time is completely yours, so make it yours.

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Yes it is Fall (The Voice of Wisdom)


Below is communication that I have received when I first started to channel, though I had no idea I was a channeler at the time. It was Fall, on September 3rd 2015, and I was at work on my break. I calmly listened to nature sounds and meditated, when I suddenly felt a block of energy reach me and urge me to write everything down. Later, some of what I wrote I recognized from meditations and writings of others (though only the idea of humans being trees), but I found it fascinating that I could simply sit down, close my eyes, and receive this without any research. Today, as I was preparing to re-share this old post that I had published on Facebook years ago, more and more energy reached me and urged me to add to this.

I find it quite tailored to empaths, who go through life feeling at the mercy of what they feel around them. I thought this was such a great way of explaining what it should look like, and how an empath can grow by accepting and allowing themselves to be, even as connected as they are to other lives. I will add to this, if I feel more that would complete it further:

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Got Hired by the Government?


I’ve read numerous posts about persons who get hired by government agencies, such as the FBI and the CIA, and this is simply a post adding some humor to the topic, as reading these blogs has made me laugh out loud! I do not work for any government agencies, and I am completely self-employed, but if you do get hired by a government agency like the CIA, you would know that it should be kept confidential, “or else” (for your own safety); keep in mind, you should hide it so much that not even a fly should fly by you and know where you have been!

Here are some cover stories you may use.. By the way, I post this because one thing I have also seen all over the internet is that government agents have now become quite obvious in the midst of civilians, especially when they are from Washington, DC.. hence why so many people love to post about how visible they are when they try to camouflage themselves. Yes, it has become more of a joke:

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Letting go of Insecurities

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I still remember those “Golden Girls” days in Houston Texas, when my college friends and I would blast life to pieces! We would drive around in the rain, even splashing passerby on purpose, though everyone was always in a good mood and literally drenched in rain already. Kind of like being around a car when it’s driving in the water. If you’re close, chances are…! We would shout our phone numbers out the window to cute guys, and tease them when they actually tried to write it down by driving by them, making u-turns and repeating the numbers incoherently.. When we were stopped by the police, we would make up the most farfetched of stories as to why we were too much fun on the road. We’d play the craziest songs from PINK as we shouted loudly, like “Fingers”, and especially “Apologize” from Timberland, and even “I love it” by Icona Pop…

We nicknamed my crush James from Macy’s “toothpick”, and teased the poor toothpick all day long! We did name him so because he was tall, and asked too many dumb questions (like “where is the restroom” every single day, and even after months of being employed there… imagine). We even had the audacity to go into the university library to play porn on the projector screen, and we even surprise played the 2 girls 1 cup video for others in the computer lab (I was the first victim lol). We were all together when Obama became president, and sat on the floor at school celebrating and laughing along with everyone. By the way, we NEVER drank alcohol, this was all sober fun, even though we shouted out the “Sober” from PINK like drunkards. We spent lots of time at Teahouse having Tapioca, and at the Falafel House teasing the cute Israeli guy. The best part? We were all virgins who hadn’t even been kissed, yet we were confident just by being alive.

We would start random conversations with strangers and pretend to be friends from forever as we kept the “I do know you dude” poker face, and spent whole ten minute conversations going down memory lane about fake memories THEY couldn’t remember, then laughed later right before finding a new victim. And I still remember the fun exercises I’ve had to do for my communications classes: Stand in an elevator, and when people are having a conversation and laughing, laugh the loudest, extremely loud, while looking straight into their eyes and literally looking like you’re part of the joke. Or go into the elevator again, and look at others directly instead of looking up at the ceiling or down to avoid eye contact. Self-confidence was not of the issue! So WHAT HAPPENED? Where do insecurities come from?!!

Insecurities stem from low self-confidence, and essentially feeling as though you are dependent on society for your self-worth. Dependent on your past in that you fear it will follow you, dependent on your present state of being, and dependent on the impending future. It’s almost like giving your power away and being doubtful about your ideals, instead of living life and having fun with it confidently, even if you have to adjust, and no matter your looks or the thoughts that go through your mind. So just how do you let go of these little bastards called insecurities? At least, I know my friends are not going anywhere, and that all I have to do is catch an airplane ride, grab a rental car, and have some chips and salsa fun like the good ol’ days. But what to do about self-confidence when your best buddies aren’t with ya, and your new friends couldn’t be the same? How can you be confident without the crutch of friendship?

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Release Your Fears



Fears and insecurities have a way of crippling us if we let them. They eat away at our joy, and at our peace, especially when we do not express them openly to resolve them. I will share these tools I have learned during my therapy sessions, just in case it helps someone in the way that it has helped me.

In 2010, I relocated from Texas to Florida and resumed my college education at the Florida International University. My most important anxiety stemmed from the fear of not graduating in a timely manner. As it was, I had already delayed my education a whole semester, to then find out that the degree of Communication I had studied for three years up until that point was not offered at my new school. Needless to say, I imagined that it would take me at least another three years to graduate… I stumbled into my therapist’s office, lamenting that my life was officially over.

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Favorite Toys



That’s right! I’m running out of creative ideas for blog posts! One thing I wanted through creating this blog was to find topics that were up my alley as being a channeler and crystal aura, besides the everyday concerns… I saw this blog as a way of sharpening my skills, so to say. So far I’ve tried my hand at channeling Jesus Christ which was a lot of mental anguish, and this made me realize just how amazingly unattainable this man was mentally, even with having a thing or two in common with him.

**I’ve just added an extra section at the end of this post about jelly dongs, in case anyone wished for a review of those.

Here, we are transitioning into fun with five favorite sex toys (I know, such a sharp difference), for those of us who do not sit around waiting for a man to come along and put a smile on that face. We could spend all day discussing the benefits of toys (being disease-free, drama-free, and super happy!) But shopping for the perfect toy is like looking for a needle in a haystack: almost impossible. This list is of my very favorite toys, with links to find them online:

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